About Chase Cocking
A guide who treats your fight like it matters. Because it does.
Plenty of professionals can recite the clinical material. Fewer will sit with someone in the worst conversation of their life and walk them through it with honesty, respect, and zero judgment. That second part is the job, as far as Chase is concerned.
Why I do this work
I founded Fire Forged Coaching on a simple conviction: success for a man today demands more than physical and mental toughness. It requires the willingness to evolve: to look at the hardest parts of your life honestly and do something about them. The men who reach out to me aren’t weak. They’re doing the single most courageous thing a man in their position can do.
I coach men and couples in Colorado Springs and through telehealth sessions, working with sexual addiction, intimacy anorexia, betrayal, and marriages in crisis. I’ve seen what these struggles do to good men, and I’ve seen, over and over, what happens when a man finally gets a real plan and real support. He changes. His marriage changes. His kids’ future changes.
How I coach
My style acknowledges the past but doesn’t live there. We spend enough time on history to understand your patterns. Then we get to work on the present and future: a personalized plan, measurable goals, honest accountability, and forward motion every single week.
Whether you’re reaching out for the first time or you started recovery and got stuck, I’ll meet you exactly where you are. No shame. No lectures. No pretending it’s easy. Just the truth, a plan, and a coach who genuinely wants to see you win.
“This work doesn’t just change a man. It changes the legacy he leaves behind.”
The Heart Behind the Work
Chase is a husband and a father with a heart to see people be well: emotionally, physically, spiritually, and relationally. For many years, he has helped individuals and couples move from secrecy and crisis into honest, connected, genuinely happy lives.
He’s especially passionate about helping men live with sexual integrity and helping couples find their way back from the brink, because he knows this work never stays contained to one person. A man who gets well changes his marriage. A marriage that heals changes how children grow up, and how their children will. The work done in one quiet coaching session echoes through generations.
That’s what gets Chase up in the morning: not just rescuing a hard season, but reshaping a family line.
Training and credentials
- Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, Colorado Christian University
- Sexual Recovery Coach (SRC)
- Intimacy Anorexia Coach (IAC)
- Partners Recovery Coach (PRC)
- Professional Recovery Coach — International Association of Professional Recovery Coaches
- Partner Betrayal Trauma Coach (PBTC)
- Trained by the NET Institute
Intensives: deep work, fast
For men and couples who can’t afford to inch forward an hour a week, Chase offers three- and five-day intensives in Colorado Springs. You travel here, step out of daily life, and do months or years worth of focused work in a matter of days: disclosure, recovery foundations, affair repair, or breakthrough on the issue that’s been stuck for years.
From Chase
“I’ve never met a man who was beyond help. I’ve only met men who were tired of fighting alone. You bring the willingness. I’ll bring the plan. Together we’ll build something your family will feel for generations.”
— Chase Cocking